Best Prostate Massagers of 2020 Reviewed
So you’re getting ready to start entering the world of prostate massage. You log online, you do a quick search for available prostate massage toys, and you realize that there is quite a large selection! You’re not sure what option is the best for you. Before you start feeling too overwhelmed, here is an article to provide you with several different types of options for prostate massage toys. We’ll also include some reviews from our customers who have shared their experience as well. All of these toys are available on our site for purchase. Don’t forget the lube and toy cleaner to keep your play as painless and hygienic as possible.
Generally, there are four different varieties of massagers:
- Manual Prostate Massagers
- Vibrating Prostate Massagers
- Vibrating Massagers with Remote Control
- Vibrating Massagers with the “Come Hither” motion
Manual Prostate Massagers
Perfect for beginners, a manual p-spot massager is a great way to start prostate play. Manual massagers are often made of glass, so the toy can be heated up or chilled for different temperature sensations, and is easily cleaned since glass is a non-porous material. A glass massager is a good starter toy because there are no vibrating sensations or little buttons to press – you control the entire experience. This will make the entire process much less intimidating so you can sit back and relax, going at your own pace.
The Sinclair Institute Select Onyx Glass Prostate Massager is great for those looking for a glass prostate toy. This toy is only one inch wide and super smooth, great for easy insertion. The body offers a bulbous tip and ridges, to stir up even more sensations while you play. If you are looking for lots of fun without feeling overwhelmed, a glass massager may be perfect for you!
“Sleek. That’s the best way to describe this toy. You can tell it’s a higher-quality, well-crafted massager. It looks so much cooler than other toys I’ve used, just has a really great design and looks very lux. Was surprised to see that it was so affordable, so I was even more excited. I jumped on this right away (quite literally.) It’s fairly average in girth, but long enough to really stimulate your prostate. This means it’s good if you’re a beginner or someone who doesn’t like to be stretched out a lot. Still provides a lot of awesome sensations – it is curved perfectly. Promise you won’t be disappointed!” – Trex_9
If glass isn’t your preference, the Aneros Helix Syn Male Prostate Stimulator is also a great choice. This is a well-designed product, so it’s made to perfectly target the p-spot on any man’s body. The Helix Syn provides the perfect amount of tension on the surrounding area as well, so it takes less time and effort to attain that perfect amount of pleasure.
“MINDBLOWN!! Seriously, this thing is no joke. I’ve used a few prostate stimulators in my day (I’m no novice to anal play), but this thing is amazing. It’s quite large, so if this is your first rodeo, I would maybe try something a little less intimidating. But if you can handle the size, you’re in for a treat. This is a well-designed product that feels like it conforms nicely to my body. It has curves and ridges exactly where it should, and it’s angled to hit just the perfect spot. A lot of prostate toys aren’t designed for real actual bodies – this one is different and may be my favorite!” – CaliAlex66
Vibrating Prostate Massagers
If you’re looking for more sensation, consider a vibrating prostate massager. These offer a pretty amazing, “buzz-worthy” sensation. Adding the vibe is a great option for someone looking for a change from their manual toy or just someone looking for that extra oomph.
The Aneros Vice Prostate Massager has all the aerodynamics of the Aneros Syn plus the addition of multiple vibration patterns. The combinations complement one another to deliver pleasurable sensations that will leave you wanting more.
“Seriously, give this a shot. Put it in, relax, and wait for it…this toy took every preconceived notion I had about prostate orgams and threw them out the window, to be honest. I was blown away by how great this felt. It feels not only comfortable, but gives me that low-key, slow buildup type of pleasure that I love. Several vibe choices to choose from, and the whole toy vibrates. Silky and smooth and feels expensive, which I liked. (I’m a butt toy snob.) I play with this solo and with my fiance. She loves seeing me cum from this. This thing delivers.” - redsolocup
The Lelo Loki Prostate Massager is another great choice for a vibrating massagers. Loki’s six variable vibration patterns offer more exploration, from a strong continuous vibe to a pulse and wave. Loki is comfortable, and once inserted, does not move. This helps to target the prostate more accurately.
“This is my favorite toy to give me prostate orgasms because it works almost like a dildo or a manual massager, but you get some awesome vibrations too. The insertable part of the toy feels very natural and snug once inside, and there are several vibration patterns to choose from, all of which feel incredible. It is a bigger-sized toy, but once you’re accustomed to it, the stimulation is just amazing. If you buy even just one massager in your whole life, let it be this one.” – bigappleguy
We included a third vibrating prostate massager for its hands-free performance: the Lelo Bruno Vibrating Prostate Massager. Hands-free climax is everyone’s goal, and a toy like the Bruno can do just that for you! This massager is designed to target both the perineum and the prostate, while holding itself in place. The perfectly-angled curved tip really allows this toy to reach your p-spot. If you always thought that a hands-free orgasm would be out of reach, give the Bruno a shot.
“Everythng Lelo does is gold, I swear. This massager is no different. Let me start off by saying that I am a single man who is very picky about what kind of toys and products I use, so I like to do my research and shop around, especially before dropping over $100 on a new toy. But I am very happy that I picked this one up. It arrived right on time in a discreet box. I screwed up some of the information when ordering, but customer service was extremely helpful in fixing it for me. Anyway, I got the toy and as soon as I picked it up, I knew it was a good buy. This thing feels luxurious, high-end, and just all around a good design. It’s extremely smooth and velvety to the touch, and like I said, seems very lux. It IS a rather large toy, which for me was not an issue, but for others it could be. However, that just made the experience all that more incredible. It stays nicely in place and has a good setting selection. You really get a good sensation at both ends of the toy, and the charge lasts a decent amount of time as well. Comes with USB for charging, and I also read the little book that came with it and found out this is waterproof. A wonderful product that will see a lot of use from me.” – juniorJR
Remote-Controlled Vibrating Massagers
Once you are a bit more comfortable with the sensations of prostate massage, perhaps you’ll be brave enough for a toy with a remote control. These are especially fun toys for couples looking to explore together, because once the toy is inside, your partner can control the vibrating sensations themselves at the push of a button. Perfect for a playful, technological, teasing experience.
Recommended is the Je Joue Nuo Remote Control Anal Plug with mini vibrator. This toy offers a very natural feel and stays put inside you, so you don’t have to worry about constant readjustment. This massager also features a DUAL motor, offering two different types of stimulation – one for the prostate and another for the perineum. Choose to pleasure both spots, or just one! There are seven different speeds and five different patterns. An easy-to-use phone app makes the play options even more exciting. This is a great toy for foreplay or “just because.”
“A very fun, very sexy toy perfect for couples looking to spice things up. We bought this on a whim and have been happy with it ever since. This is a comfortable butt plug that’s body-safe and has an app that your partner can control. It’s very conforming to your body and sits nicely between your cheeks. Very pleased overall with this toy.” - JeffreyG
If you’re really looking to up your remote game, the Lelo Hugo Remote Control Prostate Massager is the way to go. The Hugo also features two vibrating modules, one in the base and one in the tip – so you can stimulate the prostate and perineum simultaneously. Not only that, but you don’t need a smartphone app to operate the Hugo, because it comes with its very own motion-sensitive controller!
“Another great toy from Lelo! This is yet another product I’m obsessed with due it to being so damn soft and comfortable. It makes me orgasm time and time again, and I love a toy that has a remote control. My female partner loves to play with this with me, changing the controls and watching me go over the edge. Longlasting charge and easy to clean. The Hugo may be my fave toy right now.” – Chadwickk
Vibrating “Come Hither” Massagers
Last but not least is the ever-so-tantalizing vibrating prostate massager that pleasures you in a “come hither” motion inside your body. That one movement will change your p-spot game forever.
The Lelo Loki Wave Prostate Massager is the first of its kind. A massager that moves back and forth inside of you will completely enhance your prostate massage experience. It is a great option for someone who has had a little more experience with massage toys and is looking to really step up the pleasure. The Lelo Loki Wave has a very sleek design to it, feels very luxurious, and offers 10 stimulation modes. It’s waterproof and USB-rechargeable – you won’t find a more convenient toy! If you’re on the fence about trying this vibrating massager, just go for it. You won’t regret it.
“Truly mind-blowing and a very luxurious design. The “come hither” motion is what sealed the deal for me with this massager. There’s really nothing else like it. You can tell the designers had a man’s body in mind when working out the kinks with this one. Various power settings, a little arm for your perineum, and a very easy-to-clean outer exterior. Really amped up my orgasms.” – PHC2
Recently, the folks at Nexus released the Nexus RevO 2 Prostate Massager which features a revolving head! Its innovative rotating and vibrating parts have been specially created to enable users reach new heights of orgasmic bliss through prostate massage. This black handheld device features a 2-speed rotating shaft to allow for the user to adjust the intensity of the stimulation as he wishes.
“I typically would not spend this much money on a prostate toy, but I figured “why not?” I had read some other good reviews online, and this thing looked like the real deal. I was NOT disappointed. This would remind you of an old school computer game joystick type of thing. It is much less intimidating in person, to be honest, so if that’s your hold-up, don’t worry! It stimulates ALLLLL the areas, and has a couple of speed settings that really amp up the pleasure. I also loved how easy it was to charge, very cool that you could use a USB cable.” - ynottony
These are some of the best toys available for someone looking to experience amazing pleasure from prostate massage. Whether you’re a novice or a prostate pro, there is a toy out there to suit your needs (and your wants). If you aren’t sure, why not try a few? The experimenting could be the best part. If you’re looking for tips on achieving a prostate orgasm, you can also read our top article “How to have a prostate orgasm: the man’s guide”.