Advanced Pegging Kinks: Taking Your Pegging to the Next Level
It goes without saying that pegging is a sexual activity for the daring and adventurous. If you have been able to overcome all your inhibitions to try out this amazing sexual act, I must say congratulations to you on that rare feat.
At this point in your adventure, you are probably comfortable enough to try out new kinks and techniques that can spice up your pegging life. Just as penis-in-vagina sex can be spiced up with different kinks, the same can be done to pegging.
There are a lot of kinks to choose from and we are presenting seven of the favorites as chosen by our Pegging Advisory Board.
1. TALKING DIRTY
Since one of the most important things in a relationship is communication, it only makes sense that you continue to maintain an open dialogue when you are having a good time in bed with your partner.
Talking dirty with your partner helps you and your partner learn what you are comfortable with in bed. As your partner isn’t a psychic, there is no way they can read your mind to know what feels good and what doesn’t - you need to be vocal about how you feel.
Talking dirty during pegging can be fun, sexy, and even a bit funny if you can unwind and talk honestly, openly and graphically about what you want from your partner. How can this not lead to a better pegging life?
With open communication and a healthy dose of dirty talk, there are no secrets or barriers between you and your partner. Plus, neither you, nor your partner will be forced to psychically figure out what a moan or facial expression really means – you can just ask. Sex shouldn’t be a riddle not being vocal about your sexual wants can be pretty frustrating for both parties. Talking dirty is a great skill to learn because it brings liveliness into the bedroom in so many ways.
The secret to talking dirty is for you to be yourself. Don’t say things just because you believe your partner wants to hear them. You don't need to play a role or be someone you are not before you can talk dirty during pegging. Simply give yourself permission to be your true self and allow the words flow.
"Letting go and telling my partner how I feel is a major issue with me. When I eventually got comfortable enough today do that, I found it extremely arousing and it helped foster intimacy between my partner and I. That way, she knows what I want and it makes me happy." - Derrick.
2. BLINDFOLDING
According to Jessica O’ Reilley’s book, The New Sex Bible, “The sensory deprivation you experience when you eliminate the sense of sight only heightens the perception of other senses making every touch and every whisper all the more titillating.”
Apart from heightening the senses, blindfolding also reduces pressure and inhibitions. With blindfolding, you are free to cut loose and forget about any self-esteem issues that might interfere with pleasure. Liberator makes a great blindfold which we offer in our store.
Keep in mind, you don’t have to be into hardcore BDSM in order to enjoy pegging with blindfolds. Blindfolds are simple, sexy and fun. You will definitely enjoy being kissed, stroked and pegged while you are deprived of sight.
Your pegging-while-blindfolded game can be further heightened if you introduce an ice cube to the act. Being blindfolded and having an ice cube run over your body when you least expect it is really a good way to heighten those senses.
"Although, I didn't like the idea of not knowing what was going on around me at first... especially since I was not in control, I eventually surrendered and I must say that the sexual thrill was second to none. What I missed in sight, I got more of it in pleasure." - CowBoy
3. SPANKING OR WHIPPING
Scientifically, the part of the brain that signals physical pleasure is the same as the one that gives physical pain. Not to alarm you, instead, we suggest you use this to your advantage. Always consult with your partner first before introducing any type of spanking so as not to alarm them, but this is a very adventurous way to bring excitement while pegging his ass.
Experiment with different intensities of spanking his butt cheeks. It is advisable to start from light hitting of the meatiest part of his ass so you know he is actually enjoying the pain. Maintain this rate for some time, and increase this when he gets too complacent with this technique; this will remind his brain of the pleasure-pain feeling you are making it have. The Tantus Plunge Paddle also doubles as a dildo with an insertable handle!
"Being an amateur at BDSM, I was a bit terrified when my partner subtly dropped hints that we should spice our pegging up with paddling. When I eventually succumbed, I wished we had tried it long before that time. I enjoyed every bit of it." - Larry
4. CUM EATING
This one is a bit controversial, but we wouldn’t be doing our job if we didn’t include it! If it seems obvious that a woman would enjoy eating a man’s cum – have you considered that men may like their own brand as well? Eating your cum off your partner’s body is an incredibly sexy way to play clean up. You can also “play” with the idea of eating cum by shooting fake cum out of your girl’s fake cock using a dildo that can simulate ejaculation, like our POP Ejaculating Dildo. Whichever one you wish to employ, it will arrive at the same desired feeling: maximum arousal and satisfaction.
"My gf and I actually tried this last week! Not only did it work but it was really amazing! Basically she was feeding it to me with her fingers. I cum on her while riding her plastic cock and I eventually licked it off her stomach and breast afterwards." - Johnny
5. TICKLING
This is a fetish in which a person becomes sexually aroused by the act of tickling. People who enjoy this fetish may like being tickled or tickling their partners. The person at the receiving end of pegging is often being held down, tied up, or restrained in some other ways to prevent their escape. They may be aroused by the helplessness of the situation. Unlike other types of bondage or control scenarios, there is generally no sense of danger because of the innocent nature of tickling. Ticklers themselves may be aroused by the control they have over the person they're tickling. Our tickler is a great choice to spice things up.
If you or your partner wants to experiment with tickling and pegging, it's best to start slowly. While being pegged and tickled, you should not be restrained, at least not at first. A safe word should be also be established in case the person being tickled begins to feel uncomfortable.
Choosing body parts to tickle is easy while pegging. You only need to know your body, what you like and what tickles you. If you have a foot fetish, for instance, you may direct your partner to work on it. Other common ticklish spot in people include the ribs, armpit, neck and belly.
The tickler can also focus on light strokes or more erotic areas such as the breasts, inner thighs and genitals. We also offer a wide range of restraints and props to bring your tickling to the next level.
"What better way for me to enjoy being pegged than to laugh hysterically while at it. I love being tickled all over especially my torso and feet but of all, my ear lobes are the real bomb." - Martin Scott
6. FAUX BLOWJOB
One of the most interesting thing about pegging is the role reversal involved. The man will take up an unconventional role and vice versa. Of the many ways to complete the fun cycle of pegging is to employ the use of blowjob. Yes! The act of the man getting on his knees to lubricated the dildo with his tongue and lips.
This could bring about intense fun for the man because he knows the exact spot that stimulates him when being blown thereby making him a professional in giving it out. The woman is not left hanging in this fun as she also enjoys the dominant position she attains. Holding the head of a man to control the momentum is another way to wholly assume this position.
The blow job can start in two ways, first is by moistening the length of the cock from below the cap to the balls before taking in the cap of the penis with your mouth. Another is by you lubricating the cap or the dildo with your tongue then swallowing the dildo.
Any of these ways give the maximum pleasure for you and the woman involved.
"At first, I found the idea of pegging repulsive and having to suck the dildo more repulsive but I tried it out to fulfil my lady's wish and viola! I find myself wanting more and more of it." – Steve S.
7. RESTRAINTS AND BONDAGE
Bondage is a form of sex play in which one person restrains another for sexual pleasure. This can also be applied to pegging. The dominant person, that is, the female can restrain the submissive in order to increase the feeling of being in control. Most men like the feeling of being out of control of their own pleasure. Some men also like the idea of being 'used', even if it's in a consensual manner.
The "B" in BDSM, bondage is about allowing another person to be in control of your pleasure. Some people believe that the delayed gratification involved in bondage and other BDSM activities can make for a more powerful orgasm. Bondage can involve anything from handcuffs, blindfolds and basic restraints, to ropes, gags, sex furniture, and even cages. We’ve got many different restraint sets and props that can satisfy your needs.
“I have always fantasized about being bound while my partner takes total control of my body. I couldn't get around to experimenting with it because I was too shy to share my sexual fantasies with my former partners. My new girlfriend ,however, is open minded . When we finally tried it out, I realized what I had been missing.
The feeling of being bound and blindfolded made me helpless and at the mercy of my partner. The feeling of helplessness in itself was incredible and the fact that I didn't know what was happening around me made it all the more arousing. My girlfriend and I have been trying it out on regular basis since then.” - Valor
Why are you still hesitating? You can choose from any of the above kinks or even experiment with kinks of your own. Your pegging game is about to get better.
